03 December 2009

something about woman


 I know I have to be tough, to be patient, to be wise seeing any kind of problems…but I do confess that I am not that’s perfect. Perfection is not the nature of human…’cos the only perfect Being is God, our Lord. I hope I know well what my weaknesses are, thus I hopefully could deal with and lead it to good way I should be. I feel very upset this morning...but I don't know exactly what the reason is. I just wanna cry and cry..hi, what happen to me??


It is He, Who created woman with the touch of sensitiveness, for positive reason, that she would becoming mother, which is essential to have such kind of sensitive character to express affections, loves and cares. Hence, woman is an active giver, and is being strong for their loves. Woman who loves to cry, does not mean she’s weak all the way, and so does woman who loves not to cry, does not mean she’s strong either…women are just women, they remain different to men, in thoughts, feelings, characters and strengths. Men sometimes wish their women to go all the way they are thinking, being rational by all means, 'cos tears seemed not rational to their way...(is that so?)


Mmh..well then, to me, using our ratio is a must, but we need to do a balance with our feeling! ‘cos feeling would mostly listens to our heart rather than ratio. Ratio is the product of brain, and feeling is the product of heart. And both have the same task to balance the way of thinking. Women possibly could not reflect their minds through words on the spot, and usually wait for the appropriate time to say something. Now I think that I need enough time to think and even to cry...hope to have relief such pain in there...

20 comments:

  1. spijles bacanya...



    ayo mbak supangaaaattt supangaaaaattt!!! sumtim apalagi akhir-akhir ini aku juga sering nangis... capek . rasanya capek juga nangis terus-terusan..

    jadi mending tidur aja atau ngeblog, begitulah..

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  2. Ada apa mba?!....jangan bersedih ya ,kalo mba sedih aku ikut sedih juga .Ayo semangat ah..jangan bersedih lagi ok...

    Semua akan berlalu ,biasanya dibalik kesedihan ada kebahagiaan tanpa kita tahu.insyaallah...

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  3. "Ratio is the product of brain, and feeling is the product of heart" i agree with that word, but ego n emotion sometime always was defeated our logic.... btw cried if that could make you relieved :)

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  4. Menangislah selagi dengan menangis bisa membuat hatimu lega...... Sesungguhnya wanita itu dimata Allah SWT sangatlah mulia....

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  5. wanita itu mahluk yang sangat mengagumkan mbak...amazing!!!
    terkadang dia tersenyum walaupun hatinya hancur, luluh lantak, dan terkadang dia menangis walaupun dia sedang berbahagia...

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  6. menangis menyennagkan,kr it berarti emosi kita bsa sedikit tersalurkan ^ ^

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  7. anindya.ateh,aulawi,fajar,becce n moccachi: thanks semuanya...thanks for nice supports dear friends...:) don't wanna cry anymore...:)

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  8. i just wanna say one thing....that "a women is the most unique thing.....who's i love, and i can stay here now its only cause a woman....(my mother).....so...love to a woman like u love u'r mom"

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  9. menangis itu natural kok...buka hal yang perlu dihindari, asal tangisan itu bukan menjadi alasan menjadi lemah..

    semangaat yaa...

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  10. Menangis bukan hanya milik wanita, laki-laki juga perlu menangis! Seseorang yang menangis bisa menurunkan level depresi karena dengan menangis, mood seseorang akan terangkat kembali. Semangat!

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  11. tidak ada manusia yang sempurna
    sempurna itu hanya milik Sang Maha Sempurna

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  12. I totally agree with this sentence "I do confess that I am not that’s perfect. Perfection is not the nature of human…’cos the only perfect Being is God, our Lord". Keep posting friend

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  13. wah mulai pake bahasa planet nih,,,sek mikir dulu akhh. ^pasti ngomongin si albi nih^

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  14. Sulit juga nh baca nya.. Tapi Diriku tahu inti postingan ini...

    Nice Post..

    I miss you came to my blogs

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  15. @adit: thanks for appreciating woman in such way...:)
    @brencia: bener mbak, abis nangis kok aku ngerasa lebih kuat yach..
    @nuansapena: laki2 kan juga manusia yach, thanks utk supportnya, u're really entertaining :)
    @attayaya: iya Bang...menunggu pencerahan dari abang nich...hehe
    @munirardi: thanks big brother..:)
    @trimatra: weh fi, ra nyambung..googling dulu..:D
    @laksamana: it's okay...I'll come..:)

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  16. Menangis adalah salah satu senjata yg juga sebenarnya menyehatkan secara fisik. Menangis adalah manusiawinya kita ketika disergap masalah maupun dalam keadaan lainnya.

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  17. Setuju mba kesempurnaan hanya milik Tuhan. Dan soal menangis, bukan cuma monopoli perempuan tapi banyak juga laki2 yang mudah menangis. jadi menangislah..itu akan mengurangi beban di hatimu..

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  18. I agree. Men tend to use only their logic, but women are usually combine both logic and instinct to see something!

    Mbak Zahra, aku ada award di blogku yg Curhat Fanda. Tolong diambil ya...

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  19. seharusnya memang seimbang antara rasio dan emosi.

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