30 May 2009

don't be naughty!

Today morning, when I still enjoy my lazy time with my blanket, my little boy is innocently starring at me and say, "Mama I want to tell u something, give me ur ear please..."! Ahai, my boy is playing with the secret now...right when I get close to him, he straightly whispers me some words, "Mama, please don't be naughty today, okay...? just be sweet and lovable!" Oh my dear....!! I even don't know what on his mind when telling me this "warning"...he seems so serious...:))
But yes, we sometimes did not realize that wise words are often being told by our children. What they say is simply what they feel in their hearts. Children are sincere, innocent and brainy in their own unique way. So as parents, we essentially have a task to guide them, not to bound them in our propensities and ambitions. Just let them grow and flow with their life...they do need a space to express their potentials naturally.
My dear boy, thanks for teaching me about something! All what I do is merely the way I express my love to you...I promise not to be naughty honey..not only today, but all along....:)

23 May 2009

something about woman

I know I have to be tough, to be patient, to be wise seeing any kind of problems…but I do confess that I am not that’s perfect! Perfection is not the nature of human…’cos the only perfect Being is God, our Lord. I hope I know well what my weaknesses are, thus I hopefully could deal with and lead it to good way I should be.
It is He, Who created woman with the touch of sensitiveness, for positive reason, that she would becoming mother, which is essential to have such kind of sensitive character to express affections, loves and cares. Hence, woman is an active giver, and is being strong for their loves. Woman who loves to cry, does not mean she’s weak all the way, and so does woman who loves not to cry, does not mean she’s strong either…women are just women, they remain different to men, in thoughts, feelings, characters and strengths. Thus I’m so wondering why men wish their women to go all the way they are thinking at times. They always want us to be rational all the means, and tears are not rational to their way! Well then, to me, using your ratio is a must, but do a balance with your feeling! ‘cos feeling would mostly listens to your heart rather than ratio. Ratio is the product of brain, and feeling is the product of heart. And both have the same task to balance the way of thinking. Women possibly could not reflect their minds through words on the spot, and usually wait for the appropriate time to say something. Please…just give us enough time to think or even to cry, we do have our own world in there…..

18 May 2009

Happy Anniversary

Still remember how hard me and my husband build our life at first months of our marriage…commitment lies in a relationship could not be an absolute guarantee that u would be doing a happy life with someone. An ego is the reason of most couples have to break their relationship. Building a good relationship with our couples and keeping it grow naturally is not as easy as we think. So let us talk about goodness and similarities rather than weakness and differences. Love has no tendencies of being competed one another…it more talks about “take and give”…u love someone because u wanna love him so…truly with “his whole package”, which is inside, u may find something u do not like, but u would try to accept it too.
Today is a special day for me…it has been six years, me and my husband, share our life through such means of togetherness. Laughs, debates, cries, fights and simple jokes…make our relationship grows firmly day by day…even our lovely kids make our life more beautiful and colorful..thanks for this pretty great blessing God...so many thanks...

It has been six years
Together we cry...together we laugh..
Sharing our hearts with such great feelings
Thanks for being a nice friend...a real lover...
and a good father for our kids...
May we keep our love till the end of our life
Happy anniversary honey...