26 April 2009

lovely thirty

When I was seventeen I just could not wait for being twenty…and would like to tell the world that…”here I was”, a real woman!! But reaching thirty years of my age I desperately wondered why the time is running so fast…?! Yeah, if u ask me in which would I like to be?? I would absolutely love to say…”in between twenty and twenty five”! Undoubtedly, it such a pretty good years every women like to be…”girl's appearance and matured”, or defined as “young in age and matured in thought”…ough, who don’t wanna be so?
But time is still running, and day is still going…as babies grow up, we would also grow older (= let’s say more matured), and these how a law of nature rules our life. I even find that sometimes people are shy to tell their real age...oh, why? Nothing to worry about "age" guys...! It would be as it is. The older we are the more experiences we got in this life..
Me, now in thirties…and I feel lovely even in this age...having family and friends, feeling their affections makes my lifestyle and life perspective are much changing...everything just taught me how I should be, definitely, being a mom..a wife...a daughter...and a part of social community is not an easy task! Thus I need to create a good balance in doing my life...and I feel so great for having encouraged it so far, now I had purposes behind every decisions I made…which never unthinkable by me before! I see my life is much meaningful and I proudly say that I also feel lovely to be in it..what about u??

06 April 2009

me and cooking

Not to be denying myself...I'm not really good in cooking! I mean "not really", do not mean "not good" at all! I do cook well sometimes..hi hi..and always be sure about its taste...even though it may suddenly change on other's tongue! :)
I still remember how my mother was getting angry to me when I always ran away from helping her cooking...u know, a Javanese tradition required their girls to be smart in cooking! my granny often advised me to do so...yeah, I knew d reason was "if u are able to cook well, u would absolutely be a good wife...spoiling ur husband with ur nice cooks!" and d result is...ur husband never want to search for another cook (read: wife) as well! wow, sooo classic reason!! I know it has a good purpose, but I do not agree with d final result anyway! marrying someone is not about marrying a cook...it shouldn't be a comparative. To marry u need to love, and to love u need to accept sincerely whom u loved.
I think women naturally have an ability to cook...specially when they have married. Cooking would turn to be their demand. It's not a big deal babe! I do thank God that my husband take easy about it, and this what every husbands should do. He even cooks for me at many times...n it's furious! his cooks even taste more delicious than mine...he he, I do confess! why not? husbands should spoil their wives as well...
Herewith, I would also love to support every husbands to always grant their wives for d home-made cook - no matter it taste - even only by d single word of "thank u"....it's really mean much for us!!

04 April 2009


I use to spend quite long time to get myself ready suiting some clothes..n these was one of my bad-habit which I couldn't help it up to now...and my husband knew it very well, mostly hate it n keep complaining it...specially when we're in hurry..ups, no wonder, I think every husbands would do d same thing in this case!
Well I'm not kind of a fashionholic who would be dressing herself perfectly with only d very updated-fashions, but it seems to me that being fashionable is a must-do!! cos d outward appearances unlikely would reflect what's inside (read: "heart")....and personality. To be well-fashioned is not extremely to be on day-trends, on my idea, it's rather to put something in "mix and match" matter....I believe every women has these special kind of sense.
Women naturally love fashions, indeed are willing to spend much on it....(we hope men understand it as well!...he he), in d meantime, we have to consider that good stuffs did not mean d costly or d branded one, it may be priceless but if it gives us comfort, with a little creative touch it could be something fantastic and fabulous on our self...
So if u really have a deep concern on ur appearance as well as ur beauty...u absolutely need to be fashionable...ahai, I would lovely do it anyway!!